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Conducting the Conference

  • At ease, please.
    The employee should feel free to express himself/herself. Both supervisor and employee should listen to each other in a friendly way, respecting feelings and opinions. Even if disagreement surfaces, DON’T ARGUE.
    Both parties should be prepared to:
    • Define responsibilities.
    • Discuss current responsibilities and any barriers to meeting them.
    • Plan work responsibilities for the future, incorporating ways to overcome barriers and provide development.
  • Define responsibilities.
    Be sure both participants agree on what the employee is expected to do. There can be situations where the employee is not really clear about the scope or content of the job. The employee should state what he/she thinks the job is, which may be different from the supervisor’s understanding. Different understandings of the job will affect how each participant evaluates performance.
  • Come to agreement about responsibilities. THIS IS IMPORTANT.
    Research has shown that on the average a supervisor and employee have 75 percent agreement on what the job responsibilities are. In this case an employee who thinks he/she is performing his/her duties at the 100 percent level may only be meeting 75 percent of the supervisor’s expectations. Time spent reaching agreement on what is expected can result in a huge payoff in desired results without an increase in the effort exerted.
  • Employee goes first.
    The employee should begin a conference with his/her definition of the responsibilities and self-evaluation. This allows the supervisor to react to what is said and add other comments. If the employee is reluctant to begin talking, the supervisor may have to suggest a subject for discussion. For example, "One of the responsibilities that comes to my mind is . . . How satisified are you with your performance of this?" The employee should have adequate time to respond. The supervisor should not feel obligated to fill all silences with talking.
  • Listen and communicate.
    By having the employee tell his/her own evaluation, the supervisor can understand more about the employee's views about the job, performance, and ways of improving performance. Understanding requires active listening on both sides and an occasional summary by the supervisor of what the employee is saying. If the summary does not agree with what the employee intended, both parties will have a chance to clarify and work out the misunderstanding. If the employee is upset, the supervisor should give him/her some time to express his/her feelings. Afterwards the individual will probably be better able to discuss the issues which caused the emotional reaction.
  • "Get through" on important points.
    The supervisor will generally want to discuss a number of issues with the employee, but if misunderstanding or disagreement on important points arises during the conference, keep in mind that it is more important to clarify a few issues than to touch on many.
  • Consider future job expectations.
    • What are reasonable expectations for the employee?
    • Should there be changes in priorities?
    • How can the employee improve or expand performance?
    • How can the supervisor help the employee meet objectives?
  • What if the employee overvalues his/her contribution?
    If the employee evaluates his/her performance more favorably than the supervisor does, the supervisor should be sure to understand what is being said by listening and restating the employee’s ideas. If this is an important aspect of performance and there is still disagreement, the supervisor must make his/her view clear, using specific examples of performance to illustrate. If the employee does not recognize the examples as performance problems, the supervisor must help him/her understand what the problem is. Change cannot occur until the employee knows what or how to change.
  • What about the employee who performs below expectations?
    The supervisor needs to give extra attention to the employee who performs below expectations. He/she must know exactly where performance is weak and how to improve to become a satisfactory worker. Together the supervisor and employee should work toward improvement with the supervisor offering help and support where needed.
  • What is the supervisor's responsibility?
    Supervisors must be sensitive to how they can assist their employees in improving performance. In some cases supervisors may have to admit that their inadequate communication of expectations may have contributed to the situation and they may need to improve their performance as supervisors before they can help their employees to improve.